Having a sibling with dyslexia can be both challenging and rewarding.
On one hand, it can be difficult for your non-dyslexic child to understand why their brother or sister is having trouble in school, or why they are struggling to read and write. But on the other hand, they get an amazing opportunity to learn how to support them and create a safe environment in which they can thrive.
As a sibling of someone with dyslexia, there are many ways that your non-dyslexic children can make their life easier while also showing love and respect. Here are 5 simple ways they can create a supportive environment at home:
1. Be patient and understanding: Remember that dyslexia is a complex condition, so it’s important for your non-dyslexic children to have patience and understanding when communicating with their dyslexic sibling.
2. Offer Encouragement: One of the most important things a child can do as a dyslexic child’s sibling is provide encouragement and positivity. Dyslexia can bring about some difficult times, both academically and emotionally, so it is essential that siblings offer emotional support. Even something as small as saying “I believe in you” or “You got this” can make all the difference.
3. Be a friend and Offer Social Support: One of the biggest issues children with dyslexia face is feeling socially isolated due to their difficulties in school and overall lack of understanding from their peers. As siblings, make sure that ALL your children spend time together and show they care about each other. In addition, your non-dyslexic children can help combat their sibling’s feeling of social isolation by inviting their brother or sister along when they hang out with friends. This will give them an opportunity to have fun and make connections outside of the academic realm.
4. Offer assistance with school work when needed: This could include helping with studying or providing moral support during tests or assignments. Whether it is reading out loud or helping set up a study plan, these little gestures can go a long way in giving the dyslexic child the extra boost they need to succeed. Make sure to have that done in such a way that they still feel like they are learning on their own—this will help nurture their confidence and self-esteem.
5. Celebrate successes together: Dyslexic children may often feel like no one notices when things are going well, so celebrating even small accomplishments is key in reinforcing good behavior and providing recognition for hard work done throughout school days, tutoring sessions, homework, etc. Celebrate reading milestones that they reach—even if it involves just one more page than last time—or reward them for completing homework tasks early — anything that shows that what they are doing is noticed and appreciated! Have all your children celebrate every small accomplishment that their dyslexic sibling makes and remind them of their strengths.
By using these techniques, you can create an environment of understanding and support in your home for your child with dyslexia. You will be taking powerful action to show them that they are loved, respected, and appreciated – no matter what struggles they may face.
Having a supportive sibling can make an enormous difference in their brother or sister’s life, and it will help them reach their full potential. Never let your non-dyslexic children forget that they are one of the most important people in their sibling’s life and have the power to transform their future. Make sure they use every opportunity to be a source of strength and inspiration for them.
Together, your family can overcome any challenge!
Having a good support team is what everyone needs. these are wonderful tips for sibblings.
Thanks, Brenda. If each family unit functions as a supportive community for everyone in it, the world would be a better place.
I appreciate you sharing this supportive and informative post. This is helpful to parents, especially to those with dyslexic children.
The amazing thing, Danwil, is that these same principles work for all families. They all become a better community, then the goodwill spreads outward into society.
Great tips for siblings to help. It also could make them feel good that they are supportive and helping.
Yes, Martha. It’s a win-win situation.
Flo, thanks for another hope-inspiring, specific-help-offering post. You and your work are awesome!
Thanks, Kebba. I am grateful for your support.